Amit From mumbai want legal help in Divorce / Marriage

My wife left me on 3rd december 2019 and is staying with her in laws in mira bhayander while I stay at Kandivali west.

I have 2 major shortcomings
1. I chew tobaco
2. I get very angry on silly reasons suddenly for 10 minutes

She is scared due to my anger.

But her major shortcuming is
1. She doesnt have any time to communicate clearly
2. She also hurts me by her words and non communication. She acts too busy

One important fact that I feel is affecting me after marraige is I had depression in 2012. I am not on any medication from 2016

I did not tell her before marriage as I did not want any social stigma on me but now I feel I m getting affected due to it and I had disclosed her in feb 2019 itself that please dont hurt me by your words as I am not able to tale it and react on it many times with anger.

Now, I want to know how can I legally make her talk and meet me. Also, can they trouble me or ask for divorce on mental illness reasons as I get very stressful by the thought of she leaving me..